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The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. -Thomas Merton

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. -Thomas Merton

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. -Tom Robbins

In real love you want the other person’s good. In romantic love you want the other person. -Margaret Anderson

To dream of the person you would like to be is to waste the person you are.

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